| The Little Mermaid Copenhagen |
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| Tina and Chris having just been married. Congratulations. |
| The Little Mermaid Copenhagen |
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| Tina and Chris having just been married. Congratulations. |
Well, yet
another year has whizzed through our lives and I really don’t know where the
time has gone. I can’t believe that we
are only about 3 weeks away from Christmas.
The families will be joining us in
the lead up to the big day. We had very exciting news that Chris and Tina got
engaged early in the year and will get married at the end of next year. The boys
have both been brilliant and we know we can always depend on them for support
if we need it.
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| Puddings about to be steamed. CLICK TO ENLARGE |
I actually made this year’s Christmas puddings in September (4 of them) and I still have a cake from last year, so I am just about on schedule for the food.
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| Lenny Henry and Dermot O'Leary |
Usually, Stephen likes to tell everyone about the famous people that I am lucky enough to meet, and although I have not been out and about as much, I did meet a few well know faces such as Lenny Henry, Stephen Mangan and Dermot O’Leary, all of whom were at the Bath Children’s Literature festival.
I also saw the crime writer Patricia Cornwell at an event in London. Lately I have yet again been involved in the initial judging for the 500 Words competition and I thoroughly enjoy the process. Oh, and yet again I've been surrounded with books to be reviewed for the School Library Associations Information Book Award
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| The magnificent Briksdal Glacier - Click to enlarge |
Our first attempt at a Norway cruise ended when Covid intervened and then the next year Fred Olsen sold their ship! We really didn’t think that we would get away, but talking to a member of Stephen’s family, he spoke about his experience of trips on Saga cruises (we’re just old enough). We did some investigating and finally committed to going to Norway at the end of June this year. It turned into one of the best holidays we have ever been on. Everything was included, from the collection and return to our front door, fabulous food, free drinks and a wonderfully friendly and helpful crew. The cruise was from Tilbury, visiting Bergen, Alesund, Olden and Stavanger. Highlights were definitely visiting a glacier, riding in a troll car and going up on both the Loen Sky Lift and the funicular in Bergen.
We also visited the East Somerset railway, which was a Christmas gift from Nick and Louise (it was great and remarkably educational).
Our trip to Yorkshire was lovely to catch up with family. The journey north was via Chatsworth House and then back visiting the RAF Cosford Museum at Cosford.
This is Chinook "Bravo November" now retired and resting at the RAF Museum at Cosford. This a very famous aircraft which served in the Falklands and in Afganistan
Do Google "Bravo November"
In November Stephen celebrated two years since his
CAR-T cell treatment, and of his myeloma remaining undetectable. He has found the energy to undertake several
projects including replacing a garden fence and redecorating a bedroom which
even required the fitting of coving. He has just had his second cataract operation, both of which have
healed well. He has, though, lost confidence in a well-known high street optician which failed to
diagnose that he also has Fuchs'
Dystrophy.
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One notable measure of his health was his ability to participate, as a retired JP, in this year’s Remembrance parade in Bristol. His health and the pandemic had prevented his attendance for two years but now he was able to renew his friendship with former colleagues.
In June Stephen made the decision to return to
Samaritans as a volunteer listener.
Covid and his health had required that he stand down in 2021 and his
return meant that he be retrained and initially to work with a mentor. He is now firmly back to solo duties which he
finds so very rewarding. Having
undertaken the necessary research, Stephen completely rewrote the Wikipedia
page about RAF Locking. The station was
where he had trained in 1974, to where he returned in 1983 as an instructor,
and to where returned and then retired from in 1996.
To get me in the Christmas spirit, I have just been to a performance of “Muppet Christmas Carol” with Chris. It was with a live orchestra and was fantastic, with a very appreciative audience.
Stephen and I will be going to a performance of Messiah also at the
refurbished Coston Hall, now called the Bristol Beacon, in the near future.
This evening we had the great pleasure of attending one of the first concerts, Handel's Messiah, in the recently refitted Bristol Beacon (formerly the Colston Hall). A super concert in a wonderful place.
| The refitted Bristol Beacon CLICK TO ENLARGE |
This photo shows us "scrubbed up" and about to go into the formal dinner on our ship the Spirit of Discovery
Well, yet
another year has whizzed through our lives and I really don’t know where the
time has gone.
Life seems to have got back to ‘normal’ for most people, but for us that is not the same as it was prior to the pandemic. We are still being very careful and wearing masks whenever we are out in public spaces. However, we have been lucky enough to fulfil one of our wishes and that was to have a proper holiday. We got back to Cyprus and had a lovely week in Pissouri, relaxing and meeting up with friends. Because we had not been away for such a long time, we treated ourselves to a stay at the Columbia Beach Resort, something that we could only dream of in the past. It must be said that it was a lovely experience and very relaxing.
Stephen at our favourite beach and restaurant (Kyrenia). Someone had to take the picture!
That was our only break this year, but we
have managed to see the boys on a few occasions; this has included visits in
both directions for all of us. We have
also been able to undertake some “dog sitting”, looking after Chris’s dog
Indy. This has been lovely, but means we
don’t have to commit to having a permanent resident pooch!
Christmas is
getting ever closer, but I still seem to be waiting for the Christmas spirit to
take effect. I did manage to make a
couple of Christmas cakes in the summer and they need another feed with some
brandy. I still need to make some of the
other usual foodstuffs, but I do have a pudding that was made last year. Hopefully Nick and his family will be with us
on Christmas day, and we will be having Chris and Tina to stay over the festive
period. It will be lovely to see
everyone, but especially Finley (who is now 9) and Indy the dog.
Our Christmas tree, which we've had for almost 30 years, has always had the same decoration, a robin, at the very top. It can no longer support itself and so will become a normal hanging decoration. Looking for a replacement, Stephen found the idea of a Tomte (Swedish name) and set about giving birth to one from scratch.
To explain, a Tomte is a mythological creature often associated with Christmas. These little spirits are treasured by all, wherever you may live.
Stephen has continued to benefit from the CAR-T cell treatment he received last year. Blood tests and biopsies have continued to fail to identify any myeloma. During the autumn he operated his drone over an area of the River Severn near Sharpness. After a period of editing, he published a video on YouTube entitled “Severn Rail Bridge Tragedy”. If you wish to view this search for Stephen as Pempilot. Completely without explanation, the video has been viewed thousands of times, over 70,000 views as I write this and received multiple comments – extraordinary. His next project is to re-write the Wikipedia page about RAF Locking which he feels does not reflect the significance of the former training establishment that launched the careers of so many service personnel.
Perhaps our main project of the year was decorating the dining room. It is something that Stephen has wanted to do for a couple of years, but his health had not allowed him to do. Luckily, he felt fine in the autumn and Chris and Tina helped move the furniture out of the room and I moved all of the books from the bookshelves (a mammoth task). He then decorated the room in a dark green/peacock colour, which looks fabulous. We are currently taking a break from decorating and doing other things.
I have been able
to get to a few conferences this year as well as a book festival in Bath and an
award ceremony in London, the first time I have been there since the beginning
of 2020. I finally got to travel on the
Elizabeth Line, which saved me a lot of time going to Tottenham Court
Road. Usually, Stephen likes to tell
everyone about the famous people that I am lucky enough to meet, but this year,
that has not really happened. The high spots were seeing Michael Morpurgo again
as he never disappoints and also seeing the historian Janina Ramirez speak; the
last time I met her was at a launch for one of her books about 5 years ago.
Margaret's involvement with the Carnegie and Greenaway Awards and....
....Margaret again surrounded with books being reviewed for the School Library Association's Information Book Award
I think the most important thing is that we manage to keep busy and keep in touch with our family and friends. I feel lucky that I am part of a fantastic library and book world and can keep up with people and what is going on. The boys have both been brilliant and we know we can always depend on them for support if we need it.
We hope that
this coming year will allow us to get away for a nice holiday at some point,
but at the moment we are still trying to decide what would be best. We had been
booked to go on a Norwegian Fjord cruise with Fred Olsen, to replace the one
that was cancelled with lockdown; however, we have had an email to say that it
has been cancelled and that the ship has been put up for sale!! We
will let you all know next year about what transpires.

We hope that you all have a wonderful Christmas and that next year will be full of joy.
Best wishes
Margaret and Stephen
Greetings to
all our family friends in this most unusual of times. Honestly this time last year
we were hoping that it would be nearly over, yet we are still in the same
situation.
The first thing
to say is that we hope that all of you have managed to stay safe and well this
year. Whilst the situation has eased for
many of us, we are still not back to normal; in fact, you will see from later
comments, the two of us are back in shielding until at least the end of February !
Once again, we
will be having a very quiet Christmas and because I made multiple cakes and
puddings last year, I only have to make sausage rolls and mince pies this
year. I even have turkey breast in the
freezer. Despite all this, I really
don’t feel organized for the festive season, mainly because I can’t get out and
choose presents for the boys and family.
Still, I am sure it will all work out and we will get to have long chats
with everyone on the big day.
This year has of course been very quiet in many ways. We have had no holidays or breaks away, but the high spot has been seeing the boys as we went down to Verwood and they have both been up here to see us.
Both Nick and family and Chris decided to get dogs this year and to which we were introduced. This is Teddy, a cockapoo, our grandson's very energetic friend.
Instant friendship. Stephen did rather take to Chris' spaniel Indy (named after Indiana Jones - confusing since she is female !)
Both Stephen and myself have kept busy, but looking through the diary we seem to have had loads of medical appointments and I have been doing lots of school and book related work.
Perhaps
inevitably, Stephen’s myeloma has had an increasing effect on our lives this
year. Celebrating 10 years since first diagnosed it was to be expected that
treatments would become less effective. In the spring, Stephen was recruited
onto a clinical trial involving CAR-T cell treatment. After an extended period
of tests, he provided some T cells (part of the immune system) which were sent
to the USA where they were processed to recognise his myeloma cells and
becoming known as CAR-T cells.
Stephen
was admitted to hospital for three weeks in October during which the CAR-T
cells were re-infused. Amazingly the new cells started to work immediately;
even whilst still in hospital. Since then, Stephen has been shown the continued
positive effect of the treatment. At the moment he is experiencing some side
effects but the investment is clearly worth it. Put simply, Stephen's immune system is now fighting the myeloma. Let’s now hope for improving weather
when we can both exercise more.
Our 2020 blog showed boxes of books.
Again, this February, I received another set which needed review in preparation for the School Library Association's Information Book Awards.
I finished my term on the School Library Association Board this summer and I have to say that it was a relief to have some more spare time. However, I am still chair of the Information Book Awards and I have some lovely judges to work with. I have also done a lot of review work for various journals and have been involved in what are known as “Blog Tours” online; I think I have been involved in about 10 this year, which feels quite a lot. However, all of this keeps my brain active and gives me something to focus on. At the moment I seem to be doing a lot of reading, whilst sitting in the coffee bar at the hospital. I just wish the chairs were more comfortable !
My chance meeting with Dom Kingston of Hachette Publishers during my trip to Bath.
This was to be the last "outing" before we went back into Shielding.
I also
managed to go to a day at the Bath Children’s Literature Festival, to see
several of my friends, but of course I was not able to volunteer this year;
that is the first time since the festival began about 13 years ago. Still, I am hoping I can get back to doing
things next year.
At the moment
we really can’t do anything until April at least, so after that we are hoping
that we can start seeing people, going out for meals, and even have a holiday; we are really missing Cyprus and want to be able to go back to our old haunts,
and see our friends out there. I am so
sorry that the letter is not as action packed as usual, but “normal service”
WILL be resumed as soon as possible.
We hope that everyone will have a happy and
healthy time next year and hopefully we will be able to catch up with some of
you
Love to everyone
Margaret and Stephen
Greetings to all of our family and friends in this most unusual of times.
The first thing to say is that we hope that all of you have
managed to stay safe and well this year.
I am sure that like us, you have not been doing the things that you
thought that you would. I had imagined that this year my letter would have been
about the two fantastic holidays that we had planned. The first was to have been a cruise along the
Norwegian Fjords with Fred Olsen lines and it is something we have wanted to do
for a very long time. The second holiday
was a train tour around Switzerland; somewhere that Stephen has never been and
that I have not visited since I worked in Geneva as an au-pair in 1970. Both of these had to be cancelled, but
luckily, we had chosen well with our travel companies and we got a total refund
on the Cruise, whilst opting to carry forward the Swiss holiday to next
September. The company is Titan travel
and they have given us the freedom to move dates or cancel if circumstances
change, so we are very content.
We were lucky enough to have a family Christmas but it seems so
far away, still I am very glad that we were able to have both the boys as well
as Louise and Finley staying for the festive season. At the beginning of
January, we had Gary and Amanda, as well as Charlie and Alisha come to
lunch. They were on their way back to
Cheshire, so it was great to see them as always.
February saw the arrival of 7 very large boxes of information books for children.
I am Chair of the award judges this year and this was the
start of the process; so, sorting through the books has kept me busy.
At the beginning of March, I went to Harry Potter World with Chris. It was amazing as always and we had a great time.
We could see that there was more hand sanitizer about and a few people were wearing face coverings, but it was the calm before the storm.
The following weekend we went down to Verwood to stay with Nick and see Chris and that was the last time that we have seen them this year. We speak to everyone on a very regular basis, but we all know it is not quite the same.
My final foray out into the world before it all closed down was a trip to the Tutankhamun exhibition in London. It was my second visit, but I am not likely to get to Egypt anytime soon, so I thought I would take the opportunity.
I also went to an exhibition at the Queen’s
Gallery that as about George IV, there were some jaw-dropping exhibits.
April turned into a very sad month as my brother Barry’s wife Carol died at end of the month, it was a long-term illness, not COVID. She was several years younger than me, so died far too young. Thankfully Barry has a wonderfully supportive family, although Carol was at the core of their lives.
I am still involved with being on SLA board and am a school
governor. The only change with these
things is that I do not have to go out to meetings, but can sit in front of my
laptop and talk to everyone. I have also been involved in writing for Blog tours,
reviews, and two lots of online training, as well as attending lots of online
conferences, webinars, book launches etc. It is amazing how busy things still
are and of course I am now familiar with GoTo, Teams, and Zoom for these
sessions.
Having retired in 2019 as a Magistrate, Stephen sought something else to occupy his time. Following interview, he was accepted for training as a Samaritans’ volunteer listener. This rightly required a lengthy course of training and mentoring and Stephen found the role immensely rewarding.
The local
Samaritans branch is in our local town so commuting is not an issue and he
routinely volunteered for the night shifts which ended at 2am. It was thus with considerable disappointment
that when Covid-19 emerged and the need for him to shield that he had to
suspend his involvement. Then, as the
restrictions were lifted, Stephen also needed further treatment for his
myeloma.
Although he couldn’t attend Samaritans, Stephen was able to volunteer for a challenge called Samarathon. This required that during the month of July, he complete 26.2 miles (marathon distance) walking or running. He decided to undertake this in six stages each featuring the flying of his drone. He then published a series of videos on his YouTube channel PEMPILOT. Through the generosity of family and friends he collected almost £650 for Samaritans.
As a postscript, his research led him to feature two more videos; one about the former MoD weapons testing site at St Thomas Head, and the other about two ships which had been intentionally sunk in Woodspring Bay during 1944. These can also be viewed on his YouTube channel
As I write, Stephen is now requiring more treatment for his
myeloma. He attends multiple
appointments in Bristol for blood tests, scans, radiotherapy and
chemotherapy. It is abundantly clear
that he has to be fit to be ill! The
latest update is that he has got a blue badge, which makes things a lot easier
for parking at the hospital.
At the beginning of November, we celebrated our 45th wedding anniversary (Sapphire) but of course it was very low key because of events. Hopefully we can treat ourselves to a nice break next year. I really can’t believe it is that long. The next target is to reach 50 years !!
Our Christmas tree is decorated with mementos of holidays and experiences. This year it was only fitting to add this sapphire coloured bauble.
Christmas is going to be celebrated at a distance this year, but I am sure we will spend a lot of time talking with each other and watching things such as “Muppet Christmas Carol” in our respective homes. We haven’t put up any decorations yet, but the middle of December might see them being put up. I have made the cake and puddings and I have all the ingredients for the sausage rolls, so we just need the fresh food for Christmas week and we will be ready.
We hope that everyone will have a happy and healthy time
next year and hopefully we will be able to catch up with some of you.
Very best wishes
Margaret and Stephen
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| The iconic Dom Luis bridge linking Porto to Villa Nova de Gaia. |
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| River Douro at dawn - Truly serene. Click to enlarge |
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| The bridge at Mostar. Destoyed in the Bosnian War but now rebuilt. Click to enlarge |
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| It's a tough life.... |
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